Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part.
Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being "in love" which any of us can convince ourselves we are.
Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident. Your mother and I had it, we had roots that grew towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossom had fallen from our branches we found that we were one tree and not two.
I've fallen in love and I will never let go. Nowadays, the rates of people breaking up or on the verge of breaking up is getting higher. And most of them are my friends or friends of my significant other.
And a few thought I have casted them away since I am already attached. No! Really, no, I haven't. I will promise you if you need someone to be there, I will be. Even though I am attached now, I won't shun away my friends. I will be there to listen.
The most wonderful of all things in life is the discovery of another human being with whom one's relationship has a growing depth, beauty and joy as the years increase. This inner progressiveness of love between two human beings is a most marvelous thing; it cannot be found by looking for it or by passionately wishing for it. It is a sort of divine accident, and the most wonderful of all things in life.
You cannot love someone who is abusive as later part in the relationship, you will suffer. Love isn't about beating up and it isn't about always giving in.
If you love him, work things out first, but if he still is who he is, then I suggest to let go of that love of yours.
It's still your decision.
You know I will be there for you my dear friends! Don't be silly to think that I have neglected you all. I will be there for you guys.
Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being "in love" which any of us can convince ourselves we are.
Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident. Your mother and I had it, we had roots that grew towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossom had fallen from our branches we found that we were one tree and not two.
I've fallen in love and I will never let go. Nowadays, the rates of people breaking up or on the verge of breaking up is getting higher. And most of them are my friends or friends of my significant other.
And a few thought I have casted them away since I am already attached. No! Really, no, I haven't. I will promise you if you need someone to be there, I will be. Even though I am attached now, I won't shun away my friends. I will be there to listen.
The most wonderful of all things in life is the discovery of another human being with whom one's relationship has a growing depth, beauty and joy as the years increase. This inner progressiveness of love between two human beings is a most marvelous thing; it cannot be found by looking for it or by passionately wishing for it. It is a sort of divine accident, and the most wonderful of all things in life.
You cannot love someone who is abusive as later part in the relationship, you will suffer. Love isn't about beating up and it isn't about always giving in.
If you love him, work things out first, but if he still is who he is, then I suggest to let go of that love of yours.
It's still your decision.
You know I will be there for you my dear friends! Don't be silly to think that I have neglected you all. I will be there for you guys.
Love means to commit oneself without guarantee, to give oneself completely in the hope that our love will produce love in the loved person. Love is an act of faith, and whoever is of little faith is also of little love.
There is no remedy for love but to love more.
P/S: Nothing's happen between my baby and I. I wrote this entry because I am concerned for my friends and I will be their listening ears if needed.
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