LOVE FOR THE RIGHT REASONS AND DON"T BE SO CHOOSY...



I've always been the one to do all the decision-making and the one who would always lead others. I've always been very decisive and have a mind of my own. I don't take orders and I'm not easily manipulated by others.



But somehow, in the aspects of love, I'm so lost. I'm so indecisive. Sometimes, when you love that someone and when you knew that he/she doesn't loves you. Its just one sided love. You will be pondering why doesn't he/she loves you back. Are you not worthy of him or her? Are you that bad?



The answer to the question is NO! You are definitely good in every way. It's probably that her/his criteria for finding their love one is too demanding!? They must have good-looks, witty, kind, sincere and rich... What? Please don't be so demanding. You think you can find someone like that? *Thinks again* No!



Each and everyone one of us has flaws. Those who have the looks could be unintelligent. They just flaunt their looks and hot bods but when you start asking them questions related to politics, they might give you hare-brained answers.



Those who are smart are sometimes villainous. They will get to a point of betraying their own friends to get what they want. They can hatched heinuous plans to get back at you if they're pissed or mad.



Those who are understanding, kind and caring might not be good-looking or/and even be unintelligent at the same time. What makes them impress people is the way they potray themselves to others - hardworking and being magnanimous always.



You see...where can you ever possibly get someone that is so perfect??!! So don't be fussy in choosing your love ones. If she/he really loves you alot, give her/him a chance.



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When you are in a relationship, don't be such a bitch to go flirting around with others. If so, why the heck in the first place you engage in a relationship with him/her when you still want to flirt and bitch around. *Shoots those bitches down!*



Are you attach to him/her because he/she is rich and can support you all the way or maybe buy you stuffs that you wanted but could not afford. Such a creep. Go find a job and support yourself. What comes around goes around.



Or do you love him/her because no one else loves you so you are force to love him/her instead. You don't want to lose out to your friends or classmates. You have to get the 'attach' status and brag to others, 'hey, i'm attached!' That is so hypocrite of you!



Some people get into a relationship just to spite their ex-lover. 'Hey, look I'm attach. You bitch, you shouldn't have let me go! Now look here, I am attach with another one, better than you' *Takes a gun and shoots them down*



You are loving them for the wrong reasons...Damn it, people...can't you see? What do you really one?



You love that person because he/she loves you. He/she understands you as a whole and so do you. You love him/her because he/she accepts you for who you are. When you're feeling the lowest low, he/she will be there for you; comforting you, lending his/her shoulder for you to cry on. And when you're feeling the highest high, you share the happy moments with him/her. You share the joy, you share the pain together.



When we are in a relationship, we are bound to have quarrels now and then, that's perfectly okay. Because when you make things out, your love for one another will be much stronger and you will be loving her/him much than the previous time.



The thing that I don't really understand is when we have broken up. Yeah, we are deeply hurt; it's like a piece of knife that had stabbed you several times in the heart. And the next thing you know is that you ex-lover got attach to another person just a few days you broke up with him/her.



Isn't she/he hurt too just like you. Doesn't she/he have emotions? How cruel can they be to just be attach to another when you are still in shock and heart-broken. That's what we call cruelty.



And when you started to let go, started to forget about your ex-lover, he/she will come running back to you, saying all those mushy words, "I love you...can we patch back?" or "I need you, I love you so much."



You think we are some kind of disposable items. When you are done with us, you chuck us aside and when you need us back, you crawl your way back and beg on your knees to forgive you? *Thinks twice* Neh! That is so not right.



Hmmm... *thinks* I'm not that perfect...I'm just a simple guy trying to give my best in everything I do or did.