4 Principles

This list works from four principles: making, giving, doing, saying.

That is the order of things, too. Making is first.

First thing: make a decision. For instance, decide: you are not afraid (not afraid to pick out flowers or to say what you think).

Decide: you are not worried about yourself (and what you might or might not get from this endeavor). Decide: you don't deserve anything from love, so you expect nothing. (This, friends, is power.)

Make a decision that recognizes that the only thing you can control is your own behavior