It can last as long as you want it to. Gay relationships are hardly different from hetrosexual relationships. Both are based on the same pillars (eg. Trust, intimacy, honesty, etc.). Sexual orientation is whether you like guy, girls, or somewhere in between. It does not necessarily determine the quality of relationships.
It's sad, looking at the state of the gay community today, how screwed up they are. People screwing around like horny rabbits, acting purely on animal instinct. This is the state their community has been reduced to.
For the straights, in a way, societal structure contributes/helps to their relationships. Factors like family pressure and children force people to 'wise up' and they are more serious in they way they conduct themselves and their relationships.
With gays, there is no pre-established societal structure aka norm to follow or to refer to. So they misuse this newfound freedom to use as an excuse for their selfish, lustful and destructive behaviour. Open relationships, polygamy, are terms commonly misused as an excuse for cheating and unfaithfulness. (Both partners should wholeheartedly agree to an open relationship before starting anything, instead of automatically assuming). This has led to a vicious cycle.
One thing I try to do is to simply just avoid things like Grindr. Always ask yourself: For them to be there in the first place, what kind of person does it make them?
Good people don't willingly go to Geylang to "just looking around" with the prostitutes, do they?
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