Thursday, December 31, 2015
Tuesday, December 29, 2015
#11700 - Lesser of Technologies and more of My LOVE ONES.
Most of us these days don't even know how to use a dictionary because " Google has it all" so they don't see it as a necessary skill. Look around at how many people are engrossed in their phones walking down the street, or while driving.
Most accidents are caused by people using their phones while driving, whether it be for GPS, to get on Facebook or anything else. It's insane for some people to fathom how anyone ever lived without texting, GPS, and Google. Technology is a big help and a big problem.
I realized whenever I am out with my friends, they are always using their phones, for facebook, to play games, check their instagram likes. Same. I'm no different. Gone were the days when we talk, we look into each other eyes without our phone interrupting us every 2 minutes.
So I am not going to use my phone at all when I am out with my friends or love ones. And that's starting from now.
I won't want to bother how many likes I have on instagram or how many people followed me on facebook. This isn't the life I wanted.
So less of that!
Monday, December 28, 2015
11699th Entry. #OOTD Forinsanestudio
#ootd #forinsanestudio I am not your average guy. I am weird. I bask in weirdness. I laugh. I laugh a lot. I love sunsets. I am a love fool. I am crazy. I am issac.
Sunday, December 27, 2015
Tori Kelly - Hollow (Official)
Dinner at 49 Seats. I rate 2.5 / 5
With exactly 49 seats inside this Western restaurant and bar, the menu has affordable offerings such as pastas and chicken chop and it also has a bright and lovely ambiance.
But the service was really bad. We ordered 6 sets of the fried chicken set. 1 set has 8 pieces of chicken. So i asked the waiter how big the portion was. He gave me a DUH look and said, "Normal size?"
Look, I am a fan of fried chicken, KFC, Arnold's Fried Chicken, Mac D. All the chickens VARY IN SIZES. SO I, a curious diner, just wanted to ask POLITELY, how big the size was. You don't have to give me the YOU AM STUPID expression.
Then when I proceeded to make payment. Yet again, the cashier gave me a weird look and asked, "6 sets of chicken? Really? There's 8 pieces."
Look, I know what I wanted to order. If you have this kind of service crews, please teach them some manners.
Food: 3.5 / 5
Ambiance: 3.5 / 5
Service: 1.5 / 5
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Today:
11:00am - 10:00pm
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#11685 - feeling sick
i am coughing my lungs out and i have a blocked nose. damn. Eating lots of medicine now.
#MOSTPLAYED and #MOSTLISTENED 蔡依林 Jolin Tsai - PLAY我呸 (華納official 高畫質HD官方完整版MV)
When I am feeling happy, crazy, sad and high, I will listen to Jolin - Play.
Saturday, December 26, 2015
Friday, December 25, 2015
Thursday, December 24, 2015
'Marketing' Lessons
Good fxxks are just like good marketers
You see a handsome guy at a party. You go up to him and say, "I'm fantastic in bed."
* That's Direct Marketing.
You're at a party with a bunch of friends and see a handsome guy. You pay your friend to go up to him and point at you saying, "He's fantastic in bed."
* That's Advertising.
You see a handsome guy at a party. You go up to him, and get his telephone number. The next day you call and say, "Hi, I'm fantastic in bed."
* That's Telemarketing.
You're at a party and see a handsome guy. You get up and straighten your pants. You walk up to him and pour him a drink. You say, "May I," and reach up to straighten his tie pressing your crotch lightly against his and then say, "By the way, I'm fantastic in bed."
* That's Public Relations.
You're on your way to a party when you realize that there could be handsome men in all these houses you're passing. So you climb onto the roof of one situated towards the center and shout at the top of your lungs, "I'm fantastic in bed!"
* That's Spam.
You're at a party and see a handsome guy. You talk him into going home with your friend.
* That's a Sales Representative
Your friend can't satisfy him so he calls you.
* That's Tech Support.
You are on a forum. You message a handsome guy online and say "I'm fantastic in bed"
* That's Online Marketing
You walk into Shogun and see a handsome guy. He walks up to you and says, "I hear you're fantastic in bed."
* That's Brand Recognition. (ULTIMATE)
You wrote on a forum on, "How to be fantastic in bed" and you got mails wanting to try out how good you are in bed.
* That's Indirect Marketing.
You found out from others that someone had copied your "Techniques in bed"
* That's Piracy.
You offer tips to your friends on, "How to be fantastic in bed".
* That's Consultancy.
You bedded more than enough men to write a book on, "How to be fantastic in bed".
* That's a Guru.
13 Food For Thoughts
1. Live A Life of No Regrets - I know its not easy when you are face with many choices, but a life with no regrets is when you live it for yourself and not for others and not based on what others say.
Whatever choices we make in life there will be consequences. The good consequences will enrich us and help us grow, the bad consequences may destroy us and also hurt others. Choose your choices wisely. Don't do things that you may regret for the rest of your life.
2. Do Good Deeds - Do good and help people when you can because the person you helped might return your help when you need it the most one day. But not do good and expecting something out of it. Just do good without expectations and without wanting any returns and not because u hv to but because you want to.
3. Open Your Mind - We sometimes have a certain ways of doing things and sometimes we do not want change to come and upset our comfortable life. Do try to open your mind to new things and new ideas, etc. Only when we free our mind will we be able to experience new things and grow from the experiences.
4. Open Your Heart - Be real and genuine to people around you, treat people with respect and don't take people for granted. When you open up your heart to people, those who can see your good qualities and don't mind your bad qualities are those people you can call them friends. Even when you had been played out by your so call friends, dun be mad at them, because it is their lost not your lost.
5. Protect yourself - Do no harm to others, but you must also learn to protect yourself. Be it emotionally or physically. Learn from your failures as it will help you to be stronger. Protect yourself implies that you must know when to put up your guard and when to let it down and these are things which will come from good and bad experiences learned.
6. Look Inwards - Happy or sad it's just a state of mind. No one other than yourself can get yourself out of feeling down or bad. All it takes is for you to change your mindset. You will succeed in affecting change only when you want it bad enough.
7. Think Positively - Not everyday can be a happy day. So when things gets you down, don't take it out on others or on yourself. Let it go. Because tomorrow will be another day. Yesterday has gone. Your positivity will attracts positive things.
8. Manage Your Expectations - When you do something, always manage your expectations. If good things happens, its because of the effort you put in. Even if good things didn't happen, it's ok too. Just do better next time. The bigger the expectation, the greater the disappointment. Sometimes, its not the end result but the process that helps you to grow.
9. Manage your Emotions - We all have feelings, things which happened can affect us, but if you look at it from different perspectives, you will be surprised how it can help you see things in a different light and maybe even understand things better.
10. Learn from Experience - The more things we experience, the better we are when we do it the next time round and the wiser we will become with each experience learned.
11. Embrace Challenges - Don't run away from it or avoid it, embrace it. Sometimes, these challenges are there so that we can learn about our strengths and weaknesses. Once we had overcome the challenges, we can conquer our weakness. Even if we fail, it means we need to look at our weaknesses and put in more effort to be better next time round.
12. What Defines You - You are defined by who you are as a person and not by material things or your physical outlook. People like you because of your personality, character and all those internal traits, not your physical appearance nor your financial status. But that does not mean you neglect your external appearance, although they are of secondary importance.
13. Treat Yourself Well - Treat others good but also treat yourself better. I am not asking you to be selfish or self centered. What I am saying is don't be too hard on yourself when we fail sometimes, because failure is part and parcel of life. You owe it to yourself to treat yourself better and pick yourself up when you are down and move on from the failure.
14. Be Thankful and Count Your Blessing - Life have lots of ups and downs, there will be people whom will cross path which will change your life and or unpleasant things happened, but it helped you to grow to be a better person or effect you enough to be stronger and wiser. Always be thankful to those who helped you grow and always count your blessing that you are safe and healthy.
Whatever choices we make in life there will be consequences. The good consequences will enrich us and help us grow, the bad consequences may destroy us and also hurt others. Choose your choices wisely. Don't do things that you may regret for the rest of your life.
2. Do Good Deeds - Do good and help people when you can because the person you helped might return your help when you need it the most one day. But not do good and expecting something out of it. Just do good without expectations and without wanting any returns and not because u hv to but because you want to.
3. Open Your Mind - We sometimes have a certain ways of doing things and sometimes we do not want change to come and upset our comfortable life. Do try to open your mind to new things and new ideas, etc. Only when we free our mind will we be able to experience new things and grow from the experiences.
4. Open Your Heart - Be real and genuine to people around you, treat people with respect and don't take people for granted. When you open up your heart to people, those who can see your good qualities and don't mind your bad qualities are those people you can call them friends. Even when you had been played out by your so call friends, dun be mad at them, because it is their lost not your lost.
5. Protect yourself - Do no harm to others, but you must also learn to protect yourself. Be it emotionally or physically. Learn from your failures as it will help you to be stronger. Protect yourself implies that you must know when to put up your guard and when to let it down and these are things which will come from good and bad experiences learned.
6. Look Inwards - Happy or sad it's just a state of mind. No one other than yourself can get yourself out of feeling down or bad. All it takes is for you to change your mindset. You will succeed in affecting change only when you want it bad enough.
7. Think Positively - Not everyday can be a happy day. So when things gets you down, don't take it out on others or on yourself. Let it go. Because tomorrow will be another day. Yesterday has gone. Your positivity will attracts positive things.
8. Manage Your Expectations - When you do something, always manage your expectations. If good things happens, its because of the effort you put in. Even if good things didn't happen, it's ok too. Just do better next time. The bigger the expectation, the greater the disappointment. Sometimes, its not the end result but the process that helps you to grow.
9. Manage your Emotions - We all have feelings, things which happened can affect us, but if you look at it from different perspectives, you will be surprised how it can help you see things in a different light and maybe even understand things better.
10. Learn from Experience - The more things we experience, the better we are when we do it the next time round and the wiser we will become with each experience learned.
11. Embrace Challenges - Don't run away from it or avoid it, embrace it. Sometimes, these challenges are there so that we can learn about our strengths and weaknesses. Once we had overcome the challenges, we can conquer our weakness. Even if we fail, it means we need to look at our weaknesses and put in more effort to be better next time round.
12. What Defines You - You are defined by who you are as a person and not by material things or your physical outlook. People like you because of your personality, character and all those internal traits, not your physical appearance nor your financial status. But that does not mean you neglect your external appearance, although they are of secondary importance.
13. Treat Yourself Well - Treat others good but also treat yourself better. I am not asking you to be selfish or self centered. What I am saying is don't be too hard on yourself when we fail sometimes, because failure is part and parcel of life. You owe it to yourself to treat yourself better and pick yourself up when you are down and move on from the failure.
14. Be Thankful and Count Your Blessing - Life have lots of ups and downs, there will be people whom will cross path which will change your life and or unpleasant things happened, but it helped you to grow to be a better person or effect you enough to be stronger and wiser. Always be thankful to those who helped you grow and always count your blessing that you are safe and healthy.
Someone Asked... What is the Essence of GAY LOVE?
The essence of gay love is SPERM. It 'rushes' through your brains when you see a hot guy. Your heart rate goes up and you pupil dilates, your dick tingles and you brain stop thinking. Men will usually be governed by their dicks. Of course I am talking about the other essence. That said, about 99% of men are driven by it. The other 1% most probably are impotent.
There is no such thing as gay love, love is love, it's neutral regardless of race, gender or sexual orientation.
I believe you are asking; What are gay men looking for?
If that is the question you are asking, I would say, it differs from person to person; On one end, there are men who are looking for Sex, on the extreme opposite end, there are men who would only want love. The rest will just fall between the 2 extreme. And there are those who wants the best of everything, they want both sex and love.
Wednesday, December 23, 2015
Love is timeless; attachment is timed
Is it love, or is it just attachment?
We all have those friends who jump from relationship to relationship, and each time, they are “totally and completely in love.”
For those of us who have been single longer than two of their relationships combined, we can’t help but wonder how someone can possibly be “in love” with all these people.
I mean, come on. It’s not love. It’s fear of being alone. Right?
Yes. And no. I mean we can’t calculate love any more than we can election polls or Miley’s next erotic exorcism. It’s just something you get a feeling about.
But what if your feeling is wrong? What if you’re just so damn scared of being alone that anyone who comes close to making you feel safe and secure feels like your soulmate?
You know those relationships you got out of, and after a few months, you couldn’t believe you ever said those three beautiful words to someone you wouldn’t want to be seen with today? How could you love someone so grotesque? Someone so not your type? Someone so shallow?
Well, it’s usually because it wasn’t love. It was attachment.
I have no real insight in knowing if your love is real or if it’s just insecurity masked in AXE body spray, but I can give you some general pointers. They’re the kind of pointers to show your friend because she’s becoming way too attached to that douchebag you thought for sure would be a one-night stand.
Because you don’t want to attend a wedding where the only thing the bride has to say about the groom is that “he’s always there.” And if you’re not sure about your own love motives, take a look at the list to decipher if what you’re doing is worth all the time invested.
Love is passionate; attachment is apathetic
They say the closest feeling to love is hate, hence why after you break up with someone, all that beautiful, selfless love turns into raging, passionate, inexplicable hate.
When you’re just attached to someone, however, you never really get that rage. You get paranoia, anxiety and moments of irritation, but you don’t let those anxious feelings confuse you for something as beautiful and important as real hate.
Love is selfless; attachment is self-centered
When you’re in love, it’s all about the other person. For the first time in your life, you want to put someone else’s needs before your own.
When it’s just attachment, you just want someone to be there before you. You’re not looking out for him or her — you’re looking out for you.
The only reason you’re buying this person new bedding from Bed Bath & Beyond is so you don’t have to sleep alone anymore. Everything you do for your partner is a little bit about you.
Love is hard; attachment is only difficult when you’re apart
Real love is never easy. You’d think it would be because it’s so pure and beautiful, but anything that intense and life-changing takes work. You must foster it and keep it nourished.
With attachment, there’s nothing to grow and feed; it’s just about how many times you can see each other in a week.
You need this person the same way you need a fix. It’s not growing, blooming or changing into another dimension. Like any drug, the high is not long-term, and you will come down.
Love is freeing; attachment is possessive
When you’re in love, you don’t need to see the person to feel safe. You don’t need to be with this person to understand how he or she feels. You never wonder about your love’s affection and never get jealous.
When it’s just attachment, you never have a true hold on your partner’s feelings because the only time you feel safe is when you’re with him or her. When you’re apart, you can’t help but wonder what, or who, he or she is doing.
If they’re also just attached, doesn’t that mean they need someone to attach to?
Love is empowering; attachment is all about power
There’s nothing like real love to make you feel like you can do anything. It gives you a new sense of freedom, a rejuvenated energy. You’re alive and ready to take on the world.
When it’s just an attachment, it becomes a power struggle. You want to make sure you’re the one in the relationship who doesn’t get left. You’re the one calling the shots, and you’re the one with the key to the handcuffs.
Love is timeless; attachment is timed
When you’re in love — and I mean really in love — that’s it. Whether it works out or not, this person will always be the love of your life.
Attachment doesn’t work like that. Attachment is always on a deadline, always on standby. Attachment isn’t real — it’s like a limbo for real love.
One of these days, one of you is going to find that real love and all that attachment you placed on each other will fall off as quickly as you put it on.
Real love doesn’t fall off; it stays with you forever.
Miss Germany said some rude stuff about Miss Philippines after Steve Harvey's big mistake.
After Steve Harvey flubbed the Miss Universe results and accidentally crowned the wrong pageant queen on live TV, there was a lot of uproar on the Internet. But what was going on with all the other girls on the back line who didn't make it into the top three?
Apparently, there was plenty of drama amongst all the other countries' beautiful representatives. In this interview with Missosology, Sarah-Lorraine Riek (Miss Germany) spoke about how the rest of the girls felt when the crown went to Miss Philippines after Miss Colombia was dethroned:
Why I don't sympathize with Miss Colombia.
Why I don't sympathize with Miss Colombia.
I never saw Humility on her part.
That experience never humiliated her. Never. She should be happy she was given 2 minutes to be the Miss Universe for that very moment, that despite the truth that she is NEVER the winner. The silence in the Universe when her name was announced proved it.
Miss Philippines was looking all content while she thought she was the 1st runner up not knowing she was the real winner. It was heavy on her part for sure coz she worked hard and prayed hard for it, just like how it was heavy for me as a fan, and for others as well who waited for long years for that night!
Miss Colombia could have turned it around and handed the sash and the crown, hugged Miss Philippines and congratulated her. But she did not. It was a very historic moment when Paulina Vega (Miss Universe 2014) put the crown on her. Miss Colombia could have done better by giving or crowning it to the real winner, Miss Philippines. That could have been the Best scene ever!
But she never did it. Yes, it was painful. But right from the start, as a follower of Miss Universe, I observed the lack of Humility on her
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